Monthly Archives: September 2017

Grow Together Update Sept 28

Hey all, this week’s post is quite long, so I thought we’d kick it off with a brief video.  Please take a minute to check this out.

Untitled from Jonathan Grunden on Vimeo.

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GROUP SERVE OPPORTUNITY

The WSOY Community Food Drive is taking place next Friday, Oct. 6.  The next morning (Oct. 7) we will be sorting food donations at Catholic Charities from 9-11 am.  This is a great opportunity for your group/class to serve together.  If you would like to sort food with us, please email me and let me know by next Thursday.

MEETING UP 

In the next few weeks, I want to  meet up with each of you for coffee or pop (soda) to talk about what’s going on in the life of your group.  The purpose of these gathering is simply to check in, hear how things are going and answer any question you might have about your group or class.  Click here to email me and let me know some times that might work for you to connect.

TELL ME MORE WEEK 4

We are in the final week of the Tell Me MORE series.  This weekend Pastor Brian is concluding the Tell Me MORE series, by answering the question “How Do I Respond to a Broken Relationship?”  Here is the video for week 4.

If you are unable to see the video, please click here: https://vimeo.com/232714438

NEXT STEPS

Now that we are wrapping up the Tell Me MORE series, it’s time to figure out what your group will study next.  As a quick note, several groups, including mine, take a week off after finishing a study and use that week to gather socially and build relationship.   Please don’t feel like you have to do that, but occasionally it is valuable to take a break from study and to use a group time to get to know one another better.

As you think about what to study next…

I want to remind you that you have Rightnow Media at your disposal.  There are literally hundreds of great studies on Rightnow Media.  If you don’t already have a free account you can create one by clicking here.  Also, if you need a leader guide for any study, please let me know.  We have an account to purchase those so they can be shared with other groups down the road.

 

STUDY PATHWAYS

As I mentioned in our August Leader Huddle, I wanted to send along some “Study Pathways” this year.  In other words, instead of randomly choosing one study after another, I thought these collections of studies might help you focus your growth for the year.  Below are 4 pathways and links to each of the studies in those pathways. 

Pathway 1: Tried and True These are some of the most popular studies with groups in our church.

Pathway 2: Marriage and Family

Pathway 3: Books of the Bible Studies

Pathway 4: Long Intentional Study

Please let me know what your group is interested in and I will help you get the resources.

ASK GREAT QUESTIONS

I know this post is much longer than normal, but I also wanted to leave you today with some encouragement about leading great small group discussions.  This is a quick post called “Ask Great Questions” from a book called “The Essential Guide for Small Group Leaders

Ask Great Questions

There’s nothing worse than a dud of a discussion.  How do you prevent awkward silence?   It’s all about the preparation and attitude.  Here are some tips for asking great discussion questions:

  1. Get Familiar with the Study or Discussion Guide: Read the questions out loud before the group meets.  As you read them, consider how you would answer them.  If they don’t make sense to you or seem too simple, fix the questions so they will work in your group.  Adapting and rewording questions is a discussion-saver!
  2. Ask Open-Ended Questions: If any question can be answered with “yes,” or “no” or a single word, don’t ask it.  If it can’t be avoided, add, “Why did you answer that way?”
  3. It’s all about the “What,” “So What, and “Now What.”:  What is the study all about? So what- why is this important?  Now what do we do with it?  A good discussion works through all three of those questions. 
  4. Avoid Questions that fish for “Just the Right Answer.”  Yes, there are right and wrong answers, but if the group members sense there is just one answer very few people will speak up out of fear of being wrong.
  5. Don’t celebrate the “right answer”: This is the same as number 4 except you throw a party when you hear the answer you want.  Celebrate the right answer and you will shut down future discussion.
  6. Don’t Answer Your Own Questions: If no one responds to a question, then ask a follow-up, “Did that question make sense?” Silence might be an indicator that group members are thinking, or it might be an indicator that the question needs to be reworded. Asking this follow-up question will help you know which is true.
  7. Don’t Judge Someone’s Answer: You might hear some doozies, but resist the urge to correct others.  Instead ask follow-up questions to seek more replies, like “Where do you see that in Scripture?” or “What do the rest of you think about that?”

I hope this stirs up some ideas on how we can each ask better questions in our groups.
Thanks again JG

Grow Together Update | Sept 21

Hello Grow Together Leaders, I wanted to say thank you for all the feedback about your small groups and classes over the last couple weeks.  It’s been great to hear about the discussions you’ve had.  Please keep them coming.

LEADER HUDDLE POSTPONED

I sent an email out earlier today, but the leader huddle we were supposed to have this coming Sunday has been postponed.  Unfortunately not very many people were able to make it.

Please mark your calendar now for our next huddle on Sunday Nov. 19 at 6 PM

 

COFFEE TIME 

In light of our leader huddle being cancelled, I wanted to extend an opportunity to meet up with each of you for coffee or pop (soda) to talk about what’s going on in the life of your group.  The purpose of these gathering is simply to check in, hear how things are going and answer any question you might have about your group or class.  Please email me and let me know some times that might work for you to connect.

TELL ME MORE WEEK 3

This weekend Pastor Wayne is continuing the Tell Me MORE series, by answering the question “Why Are Christians Hypocrites?”  As a reminder each week’s study is intended to be used following the sermon.  In other words, please plan to do week three of the study between Sept. 24-30.

 

VIDEOS

There is a brief video to go along with each week’s study.  Week Three’s video features our very own Brian Talty.  You can find all four videos online at www.tellmemore.church/videos.

As a preview, here is the week three video:


If you are unable to see the video, please click here.

Thank you again for faithfully leading your group or class.  Please let me know if you have any questions.
God Bless, JG

 

Grow Together Update | Sept 14

Hello Grow Together Leaders, I hope your first week of the Tell Me MORE series went well.  I have heard great things from a number of leaders and received some very thought-provoking questions.   Please let me know if you have any questions or concerns.

TELL ME MORE WEEK 2

This weekend Pastor Brian is continuing the Tell Me MORE series, by answering the question “Why Do People Do Bad Things?”  As a reminder each week’s study is intended to be used following the sermon.  In other words, please plan to do week two of the study between Sept. 17-23.

 

VIDEOS

There is a brief video to go along with each week’s study.  Week Two’s video features Greg Taylor, the Senior Pastor at First Christian Church in Clinton.  You can find all four videos online at www.tellmemore.church/videos.

As a preview, here is the week two video:

If you are unable to see the video, please click here.

LEADER HUDDLE

Our next Leader Huddle is next Sunday (Sept. 24) at 6 PM in Mosaic Cafe.  Please plan to be at this huddle.  I would love to hear your feedback on the Tell Me MORE study.  Plus we will be doing some training and discussing next steps for your group.

 

 

SOCIAL MEDIA CHALLENGE

I think small groups and classes are awesome, and I’m assuming you do too since you are in one. So, I thought it would be cool to use this coming week to get the word out about Small Groups at First Christian.  One of the best ways to do that is social media.  During your group or class this week I would encourage you to take a picture of your group and post it online with a comment about how much you love your group.  In fact, let’s make it interesting.  When you post your picture,  tag me and I will put your name in a hat and do a drawing for a fun prize.

Thanks again, JG

 

GROW TOGETHER UPDATE | SEPT 7

Hello Grow Together Leaders, yes the weekly Leader Blog is back (let the celebration begin).  If you are a new leader this year, we want to welcome you.  Thanks for stepping in and helping the people in your groups become more like Jesus.

Each week I will write a post with news, encouragement, important updates, etc.  So, let’s get right to it for this week.

TELL ME MORE

This weekend Pastor Wayne is kicking of the Tell Me MORE series, by answering the question “What Happens After I Die?”  As a reminder each week’s study is intended to be used following the sermon.  In other words, please plan to do week one of the study between Sept. 10-16. Hopefully you’ve already picked up study guides for your group.  If not, there will be some available at the Welcome Center this weekend.  Please stop by and grab enough for your group.

VIDEOS

There is a brief video to go along with each week’s study.  Week One’s video features our very own Wayne Kent.  You can find all four videos online at www.tellmemore.church/videos. As you read through the study guide, you will see where those fit.  Please think through how you will show those to your group (laptop, iPad, etc.)

As a preview, here is the week one video:

If you are unable to see the video, please click here.

QUESTIONS

I am here to serve and help any way I can.  I know there are often questions or concerns in the beginning of the year, and I would love to help you navigate those.  Please don’t hesitate to email me with any questions.  I promise to get back to you quickly.

Thanks again for leading.  I am really looking forward to this year!

JG